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In marriage, we face a very real spiritual battle every single day. And sometimes, it can feel like our spouse is the enemy. But the truth is, Scripture reminds us that “we do not wrestle against flesh and blood” (Ephesians 6:12). Our battle is spiritual—and God has equipped us with everything we need to stand firm together in marriage.
In Ephesians 6:10–18, Paul gives us a powerful and practical teaching on the Armor of God. This armor is not symbolic imagination—it is spiritual reality. God did not leave us unprotected; He gave us His strength, His truth, and His righteousness so that our marriages would endure.
The Belt of Truth
Truth stabilizes us. Without truth, we stumble emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Jesus said, “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32). When we cling to truth:
- Lies lose their power
- Condemnation fades
- Unity grows stronger
Truth binds us together instead of tearing us apart.
The Breastplate of Righteousness
We cannot earn righteousness on our own. Scripture says, “None is righteous, no, not one” (Romans 3:10). Our protection comes through Christ’s righteousness—received by faith, not performance (Philippians 3:9). And because we belong to Him, we now practice righteousness daily. This protects our hearts from compromise and spiritual danger.
Shoes Fitted With the Gospel of Peace
Chaos and fear cripple marriages. But the Gospel brings peace—real peace that Jesus Himself gives (John 14:27). When our hearts rest in Christ:
- We respond with gentleness
- We pursue peace—not strife
- Our home becomes a refuge
The Shield of Faith
Faith extinguishes the enemy’s lies. Doubt, fear, accusation, offense—all lose power when we stand firm in Christ. Our faith doesn’t rest in our strength but in His.
The Helmet of Salvation
What we believe determines how we live. Salvation guards our minds from deception and discouragement. We continually remind ourselves:
- We are loved
- We are redeemed
- We belong to Christ
The Sword of the Spirit
Our only offensive weapon is the Word of God. Even Jesus fought temptation with Scripture. When lies come, we speak truth.
And Over It All—Prayer
Prayer humbles us, unites us, and strengthens us. It keeps Christ at the center of our marriage.
How The Armor Blesses Marriage
When we put on the Armor of God:
- We protect unity
- We resist temptation
- We encourage each other in truth
- We fight the real enemy—not each other
Every single day is a spiritual call to action.
This Week’s Challenge
This week, talk with your spouse about each piece of armor. Pray together. Encourage one another. Stand firm in Christ.
Episode Summary
Episode Summary
In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer share how the Armor of God from Ephesians 6 applies directly to Christian marriage. Instead of viewing each other as the enemy, couples are reminded that the real spiritual battle is against the schemes of the devil—and God has provided everything needed to stand strong together. Through practical teaching and Scripture, Aaron and Jennifer walk through each piece of the Armor of God and explain how truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, the Word of God, and prayer strengthen unity and guard marriages from spiritual attack.
1. Opening & Welcome
- Welcome & introduction
- Reminder of the 30-week devotional series
- Encouragement to grow spiritually together as a couple
- Framing the topic: spiritual warfare in marriage
2. The Real Enemy in Marriage
- We do not wrestle against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12)
- Spouses are not the enemy
- The enemy uses:
- division
- discouragement
- doubt
- condemnation
- God equips believers to stand firm
3. Why the Armor of God Matters for Marriage
- God commands believers to “put on the whole armor of God”
- The armor is practical—not symbolic
- It enables us to:
- resist temptation
- protect unity
- respond biblically
- grow in spiritual maturity
4. Breaking Down Each Piece of Armor
• The Belt of Truth
- Truth stabilizes and frees us
- Truth prevents deception and emotional reactions
- Truth unifies spouses
• The Breastplate of Righteousness
- Our righteousness is in Christ alone
- Practicing righteousness protects the heart
- Holiness strengthens trust and safety
• Shoes of the Gospel of Peace
- Peace replaces chaos and fear
- A peaceful home nurtures security and growth
- Couples are called to be peacemakers
• The Shield of Faith
- Faith extinguishes lies and accusation
- Protects against doubt and discouragement
- Keeps hope alive in hard seasons
• The Helmet of Salvation
- Guards the mind
- Defeats condemnation
- Helps couples remember identity in Christ
• The Sword of the Spirit
- The Word of God is our offense
- Jesus used Scripture to defeat temptation
- Couples must know and use the Word
5. The Power of Prayer
- Prayer unites hearts
- Prayer humbles and strengthens believers
- Prayer is essential to spiritual defense
- Prayer invites God into marriage daily
6. How the Armor Protects Marriage
- Prevents destructive sin patterns
- Builds trust and unity
- Keeps Christ at the center
- Helps couples fight together instead of against each other
7. Call to Action
- Review each piece of armor together
- Talk about how it applies in marriage
- Commit to spiritual readiness daily
8. Closing Prayer & Final Encouragement
- Prayer over marriages
- Reminder that God equips believers fully
- Encouragement to stand firm in Christ—together
